Following My Lead
Posted on October 16, 2007
Filed Under Parenting
My oldest daughter enjoys a somewhat robust social life, and it is gratifying to this dad that she (still) seeks my approval. So when she came to me a month or so ago, asking if she could watch a certain movie with a friend, I was happy to weigh in.
Something in the tone of her question made me think she wanted me to say it wasn’t a good idea for her to see this video. Because of that and also because I knew of the video’s content, I suggested she come up with a more acceptable alternate. (Check out Plugged In for movie and media reviews…an indispensible tool for involved parents).
As she walked away, she smiled and said, “Okay, thanks Dad!”
Confirmation that I made the right call! Her acceptance of my authority and my fatherly (is that a word?) leadership is truly an answer to prayer.
It is easy to see the risks teens are at these days, particularly teen girls, when they reject our role in their lives and make poor, often tragic, choices. If you have concerns about a young lady in your home, listen to Dr. Dobson chat with his daughter, Danae Dobson, someone who knows teen girls and is an answer to similar prayers for many, many parents. She offers some really good insight and encouragement for every parent to take to heart.
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