Stand By Your Child
Posted on November 27, 2007
Filed Under Life, Personal, Parenting
The Focus broadcast about being an advocate for your child reminded me of a time many years ago when my parents stood up for me.I remember the day rather well. There we sat, my Dad and Mom and me. Across the desk was an imposing figure, who was shocked - shocked! - that my parents would dare question her authority. They were quite clear, though, that she had done something unacceptable. They demanded an apology.
This grade school music teacher had made fun of me in front of the rest of the class. Dad didn’t take that too well (of course, neither did I!). He arranged the meeting with that instructor. It was most uncomfortable, but boy did that moment send a message to me.My parents loved me enough to confront a teacher on my behalf. They were my advocates. They would defend me against injustice. They looked out for my interests. It took their time and plenty of emotional energy, but I’m so grateful for the way they modeled good parenting that day.
Thanks, Dad and Mom, for showing me how to be a good parent.
And, dear reader, I wonder if my experience stirs up any memories for you?
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John,
Your story did stir up a memory for me. My fifth grade teacher treated me unfairly one day and even shouted at me in front of the class. Once I told my mother, I’ll never forget how she marched down the hall to confront that teacher and stand up for me in a way that I couldn’t do for myself. It made me feel loved and protected. I’m grateful for her example of godly parenting. Hmmm…I think I’ll go call her and thank her right now!