Faith, Community and Young Evangelicals
Posted on August 18, 2010
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My two oldest boys are 22 and 19 years of age. While my wife and I trained them for many years with passion and intentionality about Christ, their walk with God is now their own. They are “working out their faith” in different ways, with different perspectives on several aspects of the Christian walk, particularly when it comes to “community” (aka “local church”).
In some ways, my sons’ views on church are reflective of a growing challenge in the Christian community: How to reach out, engage and retain 20-somethings as active members/participants?
Recent statistics have shown an increasing exodus of young people from churches, especially after they leave home and live on their own. In a 2007 study, Lifeway Research determined that 70% of young Protestant adults between 18-22 stop attending church regularly.
So what are we to do?
I posted the above factoid on Facebook the other day, and here are some of the comments in reply:
- I think there are two things going – one is the fact that a number of kids whose faith is shallow fall away once they get to the university and have their beliefs attacked, but also a lot of churches ignore the critical young adult years when kids are forming their worldview separate from their parents and tell them to come back when they are 30 and married…and they don’t come back…The church could do young adult ministry a lot, lot better.
- I don’t see a lot of difference in the 18-22 year olds who stop going to church because it has no relevance for them…Church stopped being relevant when pastors turned it into one giant group therapy session instead of preaching the gospel.
- One question to ask is if this falling away is permanent. This time period is when they’re on they’re own for the first time, setting their own schedule, living through the consequences of choices made as an adult. I wonder how many of them later come back when they realize they miss the part that corporate worship had in their lives?
Here’s an article in the Wall Street Journal about the dilemma that faces today’s churches: How to attract younger believers without losing the heart of the Gospel message? By the way, the author is 27 years old – which gives him some “street cred,” in my book.
Parents and church advocates/critics: Any thoughts?
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I read a couple of books recently, one by Christians, one by a non-Christian. Both of them said the same thing. We need authenticity in our communities. Young adults may be drawn in to a church that has flashing lights, loud music and a pastor with a tatt. They’ll stay because they see Jesus and people who are real. This younger generation has been marketed to death. They know whether you are real or not and whether you care or not.